I am a 48-year-old guy who recently got divorced. I went out with my brother who is a few years younger and he introduced me to a girl in her early 20s, we hit it off straight away and I ended up sleeping with her that night.
The next day he said how much fun she had but she didn’t want to exchange phone numbers she just wanted to leave it at that. I want more of this how can I date women in their early 20s. Ben Australia
My Thoughts: Ben, now that sounds like an awesome way to spend the night. A lot of my clients are in the same age bracket as you and pretty much want the same thing so you have come to the right place. Dating women in their 20s is not as hard as most guys make out, in fact dating women in their 20s or early 30s is probably easier than dating women in your own age bracket.
The first thing you have to take into consideration is that a woman under 25 probably isn’t thinking marriage, children and career now I know this is a generalization but I think you’ll find in most cases it is true. I tell you this because if you want any of these three things you’re looking in the wrong age category. Women in this age are more interested in going out and having a good time.
The most important trap to keep out of is and I don’t know your financial situation but never try and buy the affections of the woman under 25. This is where most guys go wrong they think because they’re financially better off they should spend a lot of money on these young girls most of the time the girls will accept the gifts and expensive dinners but nothing will ever happen.
It’s also important to remember to not try and dress like a 20 or 21-year-old male, though I don’t know you I can tell you, you won’t pull it off. If she wants it to days or sleep with the guy who dresses like a 20 or 21-year-old she will. It doesn’t matter how old you are what does matter is that you’re a fun guy to be around. Again well done on your big night you are probably living the dream of most other 48-year-old guys.